A Reunion in Japan!
Our next big adventure is to Japan where we have another reunion planned! When I was in high school, our family hosted an exchange student from Japan for 11 months. Rie was quiet, very thoughtful and an absolute pleasure to be around. She wrote to our family and kept in touch over the years and had even visited us in Florida several times - most recently in Orlando about 18 years ago.
When I contacted her about visiting Japan, she very kindly offered, actually insisted, that we stay in her and her family's apartment. Traveling to Tokyo is a very long trip and we were pretty wiped out. Thank goodness Rie and her husband Leo picked us up because I think our brains wouldn’t have been up to the task of navigation! Arriving at the house, we got to meet her daughter Aimi.
We had coordinated our visit to coincide with Rie’s vacation, arriving a few days before it started to get over the worst of the jet-lag. We did so with alot of walking in the sunshine during several perfect spring days. Rie lives in a suburb of Tokyo very near where the 1964 Olympics were held and most of the buildings are very modern.

Rie, Leo, and Leo’s sister Erica took turns showing us around the area and taking care of everything for us. Leo and Erica are Japanese by ancestry, but were raised in Argentina before settling in Japan as adults so they shared their insights into Japanese culture. Leo shared how the Fukushima disaster demonstrated how the Japanese people function more as a community than a society.
One small example is that people only bought one bottle of water per person a day so that nobody would do without.
Staying with their family has been such an incredible gift! It’s been so great to see Rie interact with her daughter and husband. Spending time with her brought back so many good memories - I even got to cook with her in her kitchen!
Rie took us by train to a nearby town called Kawagoe - famed for its historic buildings, temples and shrines. Many people were wearing traditional dress - kimonos and hakamas (for men)! It was pretty touristy, but it was a wonderful day.
Here are some general impressions: the primary rule seems to be that everyone tries not to inconvenience anyone else so everyone is polite and deferential. The streets and even subways are so quiet and clean! The children are adorable dressed in their school uniforms and most people dress very nicely. I’m in love with smart toilets (the seat is always warm) and how all the electronic appliances talk to you. I don't understand, of course, but am still charmed.
Most store signs are in Japanese which makes trying to find a particular type of store a challenge. We noted the differences in convenience store contents - for example there's a considerable selection of face masks and very exotic-looking foods.
There are an incredible number of temples and shrines here! Some are peaceful, an oasis of calm, while others are overrun with tourists. We even got to experience Kabuki theater but no photos are allowed so you’ll just have to come to see it yourself! Very melodramatic!

On Wednesday we went to see the new fish market. It's huge and also includes wholesale vegetables.
There are walkways above the real action for tourists to view the commerce but also be out of the way.
We got there in the afternoon so the fish had all been moved and the veggies mostly boxed and gone. There's also a retail market but we wanted to buy seafood for a paella so we ate lunch at a restaurant first so the seafood wouldn't get warm. By the time we got to the market, most stalls were already closed and there was no seafood to be found.
So we made a new plan and rode the train taking in the sights of the city and then to Hama-rikyu Gardens -
Click here for more info and pictures! The juxtaposition of huge trees and natural landscapes with towering buildings as a backdrop was fascinating for me.
Though Rie could see this park from her office a few blocks away, she had never visited.
On Thursday we prepared to go on a trip for a long weekend. It was an auspicious day because cherry blossom season was officially announced. A highly trained official does so when the fifth cherry blossom bud on a specific imperial cherry tree opens.
Leo and Rie had a great weekend planned to go spend a few nights in her brother's house in Kobuchizawa several hours away. We had lunch at the rest stop and were grateful that Rie helped us order through the machine because instructions were only in Japanese and even confusing for her!
What a surprise when we arrived - it was a traditional Japanese house, a Minka! Though built less than 10 years ago, it featured traditional building methods with reclaimed cypress, tatami mats with shikibuton, shoji screens, an irori, and a small picturesque garden.
Leo offered an interesting insight into the culture. He said that the outside of a house or kimono may be nice but the inside is more highly decorated. The inside is what you share only with intimates. We ate around a small, low table and talked well into the night exchanging memories and views as the wind whipped around the house.
The next day we went to Yatugatake - a scenic area where you can see the mountains of three different ranges and buy special bread and milk products. A sign saying "This is John Deere country" made us chuckle. Though far away and through haze, we saw all of Mount Fuji!!
Leo made Argentinian Barbeque with sausages and pork for lunch and we had a tremendous steak, sweet potatoes and wine from Argentina for dinner. In between we visited the Suntory Whisky Hakusho distillery.
The next morning we noticed the temperature had dropped below freezing. Heading for Shirakawa-go, Leo drove through mountains, some of which were covered with snow. The ski lifts were still running. Many more of the houses were in the Japanese style than modern. Leo and Erica had also explained that due to the frequent earthquakes, modern houses are built differently and not expected to last more than about 20 years. After that, they are demolished and rebuilt.
We arrived in Shirakawa-go and went straight to lunch - very fun as we cooked part of the meal on what looked like a lantern.
I tried to move the top a bit and the leaf under the food caught fire!
Disaster was averted with a few frantic puffs. Afterwards we strolled thru the interesting town. This community evolved a unique social system. The large, thatched roof houses are unique in Japan.
We toured one of the houses with its massive central irori that constantly emitted smoke which permeated all floors of the house and helped preserve the thatch.
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Kanazawa
Leo drove us to Kanazawa where Rie had booked us rooms for the night and we braved the frigid winds to explore the tea house area. Finding no open restaurants, we went to the train station and had a wonderful dinner of tempura and sashimi. Train stations are fantastic here with tons of shops and restaurants.
There was snow that night and during the morning so we'd bundled up as much as we could. The breakfast buffet at the hotel had many good choices and we left feeling fat and happy. Kenroku-en is one of Japan's best gardens and it really lived up to its reputation. Though the cherry blossoms were generally not open yet, the plum trees were glorious.
Or next treat was entering a traditional tea house situated in a lovely spot in the garden and attending a tea ceremony! We were served confections and green tea by a woman wearing a kimono as we sat with our legs folded under us for a long as we could. 😁
Next we headed to the 21st Century Museum of Modern Art but the ticket line was so long we only visited a few open areas - still a very interesting time. Note the pictures of people who look like they're walking on the floor of a pool. This is a work by an Argentine artist.
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We then headed for the train station for lunch. Rie, Leo and Aimi had a six hour drive back to Tokyo to return to work after spending all their vacation treating us like royalty. They had taken care of as many of the details of the next step of our plan as possible and we parted with hugs knowing we'd see them again in Tokyo soon.